Ready to strike or spare, the trick to aiming.. Is not to.

So for some reason I've just been inspired to start writing out the sequence of events in my life leading up to now. I'm only 20 years of age, but so much has happened in these few young years. Let's start from the beginning. My parents met in California, my mother an au pair from Sweden and my father, born and raised in Paterson NJ. He had taken a job in  California and left everything behind.
 So my father and mother met at a club in Cali. They ended up living the "American Dream" as to say. They got married, my mother at age 19 and my father age 29. Their life was great, my father was wealthy my mother did nothing, so the decided to have a child, me. My mother took her newly born baby home on her 21st birthday (I cannot imagine, I just want to be plastered on my 21st birthday) My father has told me mixed things about my mother. She was crazy and would get rageful and angry to the point of attacking my father. Maybe everything was too over whelming for her. She decided to leave him. She wasn't going to leave alone though. She took the baby with her, back to Sweden where her parents, twin brother and little brother still lived. So I'll leave my story off here.. The next chapter of my life is pretty long as well.